Meeting different people every day of the week and year, it's a challenge to gauge their energy and decide how to interact with them. They could be the happiest person or the most toxic person you can come across; you never know who you will meet.
Nowadays, I form my thoughts and feelings about the different people I encounter day in and day out. I refrain from judging; instead, I discern what they are like and treat them accordingly. If someone is toxic, I distance myself from them and move away.
I've encountered numerous people in life due to constantly moving from place to place and job to job. As a result, I've gained an understanding of people and their energies. However, understanding others and reading their energy can sometimes be detrimental to your health, so it pays to be cautious at times. To some friends, we may also want to be cautious as fake friends are only there to see what they can get from you.
Treating others and talking to friends differ with each person. I may tell the same story to different people, but the way I tell it varies based on their personality. Sometimes, I adjust my tone or approach to match their energy.
In some cases, when telling stories, I avoid hurting someone's feelings by including a little white lie. However, I can tell the same story with others without embellishments. We all perceive and relay information differently.
I prioritize self-love and put myself first. By understanding the individuality of each person's energy, I tailor my communication to resonate with them. However, even when telling the same story to a group of people or individuals, each person interprets it differently.
Living authentically means staying true to oneself despite others' expectations. Adhering to other people's standards detracts from self-love and authenticity. We must prioritize our own values and beliefs rather than conforming to others' expectations.
Everyone interprets stories differently. Imagine having 10 people in a room and telling them a story; each person will perceive it uniquely, adding their own meaning and perhaps even embellishments. If one person from that group then shares the story with another 10 people, the cycle continues, with each subsequent group interpreting it differently and adding their own twists. What was once a tiny molehill of a story can quickly grow into a mountain of misinformation.
Eventually, you might hear the story from someone else, and it's vastly different from the one you originally shared. It becomes something entirely untrue.
So, the point is, no matter how truthful or accurate our stories are, they will inevitably be shaped by others' interpretations. So why worry about what others think? Whether it's a true story or a fabrication, people will mold it to fit their perceptions. Therefore, there's no need to concern ourselves with others' opinions. We know our own truth, and we should live our lives according to that truth.
Personally, I've encountered many people who excel at storytelling, but I've noticed that they often tell different versions of their stories to different individuals. It's not uncommon to bump into someone who mentions the story, only for me to realize that the version they heard differs significantly from what was told to me.
That's why I've learned it's better to simply let go of the stories others tell. If it's true, that's fine; if it's false, it doesn't affect me because I don't dwell on what others might say about stories or me. My focus is solely on myself and my own thoughts. Love who you are and love your Life.
In Love, Light and Blessings