I am getting to an age where I can say that one of the best or greatest gifts you can give another human is your time. Time for me has been marching silently in the background without me taking much notice of it. Yet here I am in my mid-sixties, Acting like I am about thirty years younger than that, and still, at times, thinking that I am invincible. (My partner being twenty-three years younger than I am) but it is always me who never acts my age; that little boy still runs rampant in me.
Reflecting on time earlier today, I found myself reminiscing about various memories. Instead of becoming attached to them, I adopted a mindset of simply allowing them to enter my mind and then releasing them, whether they were good or bad. I visualized each memory as it passed, acknowledged it, and then let it drift away.
Throughout this process, I noticed a sense of detachment and calm. There was no stress or emotional reaction, just a gentle observation of whatever surfaced. Occasionally, a small wry smile would cross my face, but overall, it was a session of observing and letting go without any attachment.
Life unfolds in a perpetual dance of freedom and peace, a beautiful combination that permeates each moment. As I navigate through this current phase of my life, I contemplate the passage of time. It's like watching the minutes and hours effortlessly evolve into days, seamlessly transitioning into weeks, years, and eventually decades.
Time marches forward relentlessly, indifferent to our desires or plans. In its steady progression, someone we know may depart from this planet, or it may be our own time to leave. Inevitably, our physical bodies will return to the dust they originated, completing the life cycle in harmony with Mother Earth.
Many of us harbor an intense fear of departing from this earthly plane, and it's a fear rooted in the realization that we often fail to appreciate the time we have while we're here fully. We squander precious moments on trivial pursuits, oblivious to the fleeting nature of time itself.
The revelations would likely be staggering if allowed to conduct a life review solely focused on this current existence. We would be confronted with the stark reality of how much time we've wasted on insignificant endeavours. The realisation that this time is irretrievable would hit hard, serving as a poignant reminder of the importance of cherishing every moment we're given.
It's interesting how often women find themselves standing in front of the mirror, applying makeup, even though deep down, they know it might not be necessary. I've realised that true beauty doesn't necessarily require all these cosmetics. Despite this, they still spend countless hours doing makeup. Then, the hours they go out shopping, only to return home with very little to show for their efforts or even, at times, with nothing at all.
As for the men, I've noticed how much time they spend drinking, smoking, and indulging in various hobbies, much like I used to do in the past. It's amusing how we invest so much time and money in these little pleasures, only to find that they often bring only fleeting satisfaction.
Reflecting on it now, I see how much time we all waste on these trivial pursuits instead of channelling our energy into more productive endeavours.
Reflecting on my encounters with people throughout my life, I've encountered individuals who have been excellent and challenging. Some have graced my life for fleeting moments, others for several years, and a precious few have remained by my side for a lifetime. Then, there are those I wouldn't even spare a second thought for.
In every interaction, it's crucial to remember to prioritise time for oneself. While it's essential to invest time in others, it's equally vital to ensure that I allocate ample time for self-care and personal growth. Time is an invaluable resource, and squandering it is a disservice to oneself.
I've understood that time should be wielded wisely, focusing on personal fulfilment and advancement. Regardless of age, each moment is an opportunity to enrich our lives and pursue our goals. Ultimately, it's up to us to make the most of our time and shape our lives according to our desires and aspirations.
With Love, Light, and Blessings.