Life's twists and turns can sometimes make us think that we are stuck in a never-ending cycle of misery. Some things that happen seem so unjust and dreadful, often not because of anything we've done wrong. Everything seems to keep going wrong. There are moments when you throw your hands up and wonder, "What the heck is going on?" It's during these times that depression can sneak its way in. It's also important when we are going through these challenges that we have a choice, we have a choice to claw our way out of this setback. Having navigated through some major low points and faced numerous challenges that might have stopped others dead in their tracks, I found myself only more determined to push forward. Somehow, I'd muster the strength to pick myself up, brush off the dust, and keep moving, sometimes with nothing but the shirt on my back, one step at a time.
Life throws its curveballs at everyone—it's as certain as paying taxes. Some are good, some not so good, and some are downright horrific. But no matter what happens, we always have choices afterwards. We can either lie down as if it's the end of the world or rise up and fight for our right to a fulfilling life—our life, no one else's. The key is to never give up, never lose hope, and never lose faith that our circumstances can change in the blink of an eye, ushering in abundance or whatever else we're striving for.
I've encountered clients who believed there was no way out of their predicaments, consumed by negativity and devoid of hope. But the truth is, hope is always there. If others can live lives filled with hope and achievement, why can't we? Sometimes, hope is all we have; without it, our lives might seem bleak. But we are the architects of our destinies. So, if hope presents itself, seize it and run with it. Be positive, do whatever it takes to make it work, and never give up on your dreams, regardless of the sacrifices involved.
Life doesn't come with a rulebook. We're all just trying to find our way, maneuvering through obstacles that test our strength and sometimes make getting out of bed a monumental task. With the added challenges of deceit from governments and media, it often feels like we're starting behind the eight ball from day one.
But we weren't brought into this world to surrender. We're here for a reason—to face hardships but also to experience joy. None of us knows what lies ahead, but trials and triumphs can strike unexpectedly, often when we think we've got life all figured out. Whatever life throws your way, keep going. You have the power within you to persevere. Each day, God provides us with the tools to rise and face whatever obstacles stand in our path. Keep moving forward, not just for anyone else, but for yourself, for your soul.
Reflecting on challenges overcome, you might realise they weren't as insurmountable as they seemed. When faced with adversity, panic often sets in, clouding our judgment and eroding our hope. But even in our darkest moments, there's always a glimmer of hope—a lifeline we must cling to, no matter how faint.
I've seen clients who refuse to despair and then declare, "I will overcome this." They keep fighting, taking each setback in stride, refusing to let life dictate their fate. Their resilience is awe-inspiring, reminiscent of our ancestors who fought tooth and nail for a better life, against all odds. They may have had little, but their determination to hope and persevere was unwavering, resulting in lives filled with simplicity, contentment, and love.
Life is a blend of highs and lows. When tough times hit, remember that the tide will eventually turn. If you've convinced yourself that your life has been nothing but a series of misfortunes, it's time to shift your mindset from negative to positive. Embrace hope for a brighter future. Once you do, there's no stopping you. The growth and learning when facing adversity can give us skills we had no idea we possessed, these skills will make you more resilient to any more obstacles that may front up in your life. There is always HOPE in our lives.
In Love light and Blessings