Love, the enigmatic four letters that encapsulate the essence of something that feels so ethereal and beautiful. It's the flutter of butterflies in your stomach, the goosebumps that dance on your skin when you think of that special person. Love, in those moments, paints life with a magical brush, instilling the belief that everything will be alright.
Yet, as I reflect on my own experiences, I've come to question the authenticity of love. Can we truly discern between love and its fleeting imposter, often masquerading as infatuation or lust? The transience of these emotions raises the poignant question: what is real love? Is it unconditional, or does it wear the mask of control? Is it tied to material aspects or lifestyle choices?
In my journey, I've felt the highs of what I believed to be love in various relationships—with partners, friends, and family. However, the tapestry of my connections has evolved, with only a handful of family members and new, resonant friends occupying the spaces once held by others.
The conventional narrative suggests that one must find someone to love, believing that this completion forms the bedrock of happiness. Yet, I contest this notion. Completion, I believe, is a personal endeavor. No external force, no matter how significant, can truly complete us. If a soulmate enters our lives, they should serve as guides, aiding our journey toward self-completion. The responsibility lies within us to embark on this profound journey alone.
True love, in my perspective, begins with self-love. It is the acknowledgment that the only constant companion throughout our lives is ourselves. To attract the right person, one must first cultivate an abundance of love for oneself. This overflowing self-love becomes the beacon that draws in a true soulmate. The reciprocity of love between two individuals, both deeply in love with themselves, paves the way for genuine, unconditional love.
Living out our days immersed in this kind of love—what I term as true love or soulmate connection—transforms life into a magical experience. Love, in its purest form, conquers all. The domino effect begins with self-love, and as each piece falls into place, a cascade of genuine connections and profound relationships ensues.
My present reality is one where self-love is the cornerstone. It has attracted into my life beautiful souls, resonating with love to share and reciprocate. Those unable to match this self-love have naturally faded away, making room for enduring connections. Life, in its magical splendor, unfolds when love, first and foremost, radiates from within.
Love light and Blessings.