"We are always enough" is a powerful mantra that reminds me that I don't need to constantly consider what others think about who I am or what I believe in. It's easy to fall into the trap of feeling inadequate and prioritising other people's opinions over our own. When we do this, we deny our worth and authenticity. Living according to someone else's expectations is like living a lie; it's dishonest to ourselves and our true essence. Instead, I believe in embracing myself fully, knowing that I am enough just as I am.
How do I become someone who doesn't believe I am enough, just as I am? It's easy to point fingers at social media, smartphones, TV, and the news, blaming them for bombarding us with negativity. But ultimately, I have my own mind, and even amidst this bombardment, I have the power to choose my thoughts and beliefs. When surrounded by so much negativity, there are two paths I can take. I can either conform to societal pressures, becoming trapped in a life that doesn't truly belong to me because I doubt my own capabilities, or I can make a conscious decision to reject the negativity. I can choose to turn off the sources of negativity, delete harmful influences, and affirm to myself that I am indeed enough just as I am. I can embrace my authenticity and commit to living a life that aligns with my true self.
In my discussions with numerous individuals about their use of social media, I've found that many of them view it as acceptable and even believe much of what they encounter online. However, I hold a different perspective. While I utilise social media platforms for my purposes, such as sharing information and blogs, I am cautious about unquestioningly accepting everything I see or hear. Instead, I engage critically with the content, using my own judgment to evaluate its validity and forming my own opinions based on my knowledge rather than solely relying on the information presented in videos or posts.
Consider this for a debate: While there are countless videos showcasing acts of kindness, such as paying for someone's groceries or meals, I question the motives behind filming such acts. While assisting those in need is undoubtedly commendable, the decision to record and share these actions raises ethical concerns. By broadcasting these acts to garner likes and attention, individuals may inadvertently prioritise the pursuit of validation and social status over genuine altruism. In essence, the act of recording and sharing such deeds for personal gain undermines the sincerity of the gesture. Instead, I advocate for performing acts of kindness anonymously, motivated solely by compassion and empathy rather than the desire for recognition or financial reward.
If I can recognise my value and embrace the belief that I am enough just as I am and do not have to do things for notoriety, then I firmly believe that anyone can achieve the same. It took me some time to prioritise myself and acknowledge that I am worthy of love and acceptance in my own right. So, what prevents others from doing the same? While we've discussed the influence of social media, unfortunately, many individuals seem to succumb to the pervasive toxicity of our environment.
In today's society, it's troubling to witness so many people relinquishing their ability to think independently. Instead of trusting in their own judgment, they defer to external authorities such as doctors, banks, or governments for guidance on how to lead their lives. This overreliance on external validation is concerning. We all possess the capacity for critical thinking and decision-making, yet many have become conditioned to relinquish this autonomy and unthinkingly follow the directives of others. Individuals must reclaim their souls and trust in their own ability to navigate life's complexities with confidence and self-assurance.
It's increasingly challenging for most individuals to maintain belief in themselves, understand their true aspirations, and determine how they want to spend their time on this planet. The world is filled with a multitude of individuals grappling with sadness and anxiety, many of whom find themselves trapped in cycles of debt to banks and beholden to rules and regulations they didn't create. Even minor shifts, like a half-percent increase in interest rates, can push families to the brink of bankruptcy. It's no wonder that panic attacks and depression are on the rise. The cost of living continues to soar, leading to a surge in homelessness.
How can we confront these issues? How can we mobilise the entire world, including the entities often perceived as culprits—the banks, large corporations, and the wealthy elite who exploit the less fortunate? It's a complex challenge that demands systemic change and a collective effort to address the root causes of inequality and injustice. We must challenge the status quo and hold those in positions of power and privilege accountable for their actions. This includes advocating for fairer economic policies, supporting initiatives to alleviate poverty and homelessness, and fostering a culture of empathy and solidarity. It's essential to dismantle the systems that perpetuate inequality and prioritise the well-being of all individuals, regardless of their socioeconomic status. Only then can we begin to build a more equitable and compassionate world for everyone.
In this world, I firmly believe that I am enough, and the only person I need to prioritise making happy is myself. Authenticity is ingrained in my being—I refuse to live a lie. Being content and loving myself stems from recognizing that I am inherently enough, just as I am.
While I cherish my partner and my dear friends, I don't live my life for them; I live it for myself. They love and appreciate me for who I truly am, just as I do for them. I don't compare myself to others or see anyone as superior or inferior; we are all equals. Each of us should follow our own paths and make our own choices without judgment.
If someone errs, it's not my place to dictate how they should live. I believe in the principle of karma—what goes around, comes around. I am enough, and that's something I wholeheartedly understand. If you genuinely desire to embrace this mindset, you can too.
In Love, Light and Blessings.